I was going to change the subject a little today and talk about toxic chemicals in the home and how to get rid of them, but I woke up at 4:30 am and wrote notes on the topic of avoiding temptation.
There are three reasons that I believe can be weight loss downfalls, but by being aware of them, you can control the urges. Here they are: Overconfidence, Hunger, and Lack of Planning.
Overconfidence. As you can see from today's scale picture I'm doing great!! Now if I looked at the number 186.2 and said "I deserve a reward for this, and hey, how bad could one Big Breakfast at McDonalds be", I'd be on the slippery slope of overconfidence. You just have to realize that this is just one day on the journey and remember that "we are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act, but a habit". We need to maintain our daily habit to reach our goal.
Hunger just shouldn't happen unless you skip a meal or snack. If you're out shopping and it's late morning or late afternoon, plan ahead and have an apple with you or a meal replacement bar. If you can't do that, then drink a bottle of water. Remember, you're in control of what goes in your mouth.
I guess it really comes down to Planning, Planning, Planning. I grew up in Massachusetts, the home of Dunkin Donuts. There are two DD's in my area of NE Ohio, both about 8 miles away. If I am overconfident or hungry, one of the first places that comes to mind is Dunkin Donuts for two chocolate glazed donuts. So, how do I handle it? I really do like the coffee there, so occasionally I stop for coffee only, and go to the drive-thru window. I don't want to look at the donut rack. If I'm feeling really weak willed, I get in the passing lane and make sure there's a car in between so I can't go there at all. You need to have a strategy.
If your weakness is pizza, then plan your evening meals for the week and shop to your plan - that's why we have freezers. Don't leave open nights when pizza becomes an easy option.
If crackers and chips, etc. are tugging at your subconscious and you're in the grocery store, then skip that aisle. The only aisles you should be going down are those that contain items you've already planned to purchase.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO STAND IN THE PATH OF TEMPTATION.
So, if you're really serious about reaching your weight loss goal you just need to ask yourself if succumbing to temptation is getting you closer to your goal. Sometimes you just have to say "____________" (you fill in the blank) to temptation and stay in control!
Two last thoughts: If you didn't take the Longevity Quiz they you really should. It is very informative. It says I'll live to 92, and that's 11,800 days or 8425 blogs - sorry folks.
Second, I'd really appreciate your comments on temptations you're currently having, or have had in the past, and what you did about them when following a weight loss program. I'm hoping to compile the information and put it together in an ebook to help people face the challenges.
Have a terrific last day of March,
Bill Ehmann
Copley, OH & Hilton Head Island, SC
330-576-6061